5 Rules for A City Girl Living in a Country World


My husband and I took the leap to move to the country about two years ago. I have learned some lessons (most of them the hard way) along the journey and have decided to share this wealth of country knowledge with you.

Hopefully this can help some other unknowing city girl trying to make her way in a country world. Maybe, just maybe, you won’t get cursed out in front of your children by your neighbor on a dirt rode at seven in the morning like I did.

Here’s to hoping.

1. No Dusting

What is dusting you ask? Yeah…I had NEVER heard of it either. Dusting is when you’re driving over 15 mph and the car kicks up dirt and gravel. Country peeps find it extremely rude if you do this. So much so, that my children and I got a lovely ear bashing by an elderly neighbor. When driving past a car or a person on a dirt road just take it slow to avoid any uncomfortable confrontations.

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Sign on my dirt road.

 2. Loud Booms 

Out in the Oklahoma country we have all sorts of loud booms… fireworks, earthquakes, and shotguns just to name a few. Luckily its pretty quiet INSIDE the house, but step outside and it is a different story at any time of the day. I heard fireworks at ten in the morning today. Invest in ear plugs if you have any sensitive ears in the family. Oh, and calling the Sheriff is pointless and they will most likely laugh at you.

3. Plan Ahead

The closest store from my house is eight minutes away, and it is a gas station. In the country you do not have the luxury to just run to the store real quick. Nor is there any fast food out here so a mom-in-a-pinch may or may not get the kids gas station pizza’s every once in awhile. Planning ahead for meals is an essential for a country mama.

4. Bugs, Spiders, and Snakes

You are merely a visitor in the land of the creepy crawlers, and it definitely takes some adjusting to. I will never forget the blood curdling scream from my eight year old as she saw a scorpion running across the bathroom floor. Spiders and snakes are a plenty and I am more educated now on all the different species than I could have ever imagined.

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My cat Yoshie with his creepy snake he murdered!

5. Time Management

Being a city girl I was so used to always being in a hurry and the, ‘we have to get there RIGHT now’ mentality. The country will change that for you real quick whether you like it or not. When I leave the house, I always seem to get behind the gigantic horse trailer, a tractor, or the ninety year old grandma out for her weekly drive.


I just make sure to leave with plenty of time, and try my best not to be in a rush.

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My two littles posing with a tractor.

To be honest, the most difficult part for me has to be just driving around… driving in my tiny town is going to make me insane.

The amount of people who drive UNDER the 35 mph speed limit is out of control.

Change is a constant in our life, and with change comes lessons to be learned. I hope my lessons can ease the transition for another city mama moving into the country world.

What lessons have you learned from your community?

Do you have any tips for a city girl going country?

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I was born and raised in Edmond, OK and after high school I attended NSU in Tahlequah where I majored in broadcast journalism. I met my husband Will while in school and we moved to his home town of Tulsa to begin our family where we resided for 8 years. We were relocated back to OKC about 3 years ago and while I really miss my Tulsa friends, I absolutely LOVE being home. We have 3 crazy, super loud, extremely fun kiddos ages 8, 6, and 4. My kids are my everything and I could have never anticipated the roller coaster of chaos that is my life now. We live on 5 acres in Guthrie and I am terrified and also very excited for this next chapter in our lives. My favorite things are spending time with family & friends, music, going to the lake, reading, gardening, cherry blow pops, Dr. pepper, crafting, cleaning, and fireworks. We are trying to raise our kids to be kind, loving, respectful human beings and to truly understand that no two humans are the same and to love people for who they are. I am very excited to share my sweet yet crazy family with you and connect with other moms!


  1. I share your observations about country life. I would like to add something that I tell my friends when they naively talk about moving to the country: Country air is not fresh! Whether it‘s neighbors who burn their trash or god-knows-what other toxic chemicals every single day or you might also have a neighbor who decides to get10 pigs and a herd of goats and never cleans their pens and you can’t even open a window in your home. We have lived in the country for 20 years and there are some benefits but the next house we buy will be in an older neighborhood in the city!

    • Yes!! I definitely understand! Luckily we have some pretty awesome neighbors, but I definitely get a stinky smell more than once throughout the day. Lots of chickens and chicken coops around us which are apparently very stinky! Thanks so much for reading & commenting.


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